Guest Mary Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 Tough Love vs. Spanking - Most of the American populace thinks it improper to spank children, so I have tried other methods to control my kids when they have one of 'those moments . ' One that I found effective is for me to just take the child for a car ride and talk . Some say it's the vibration f rom the car, others say it's the time away from any distractions such as TV, Video Games, Computer, IPod, etc . Either way, my kids usually calm down and stop misbehaving after our car ride together . Eye to eye contact helps a lot too . I've included a photo below of one of my sessions with my son, in case you would like to use the technique . Sincerely, Your Friend Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skylady Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 Cute !!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Mary Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 and very effecitive.... works great....:devil: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Mary Posted July 5, 2009 Share Posted July 5, 2009 i'm just kidding... :P don't try this at home Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aussiegold Posted August 13, 2009 Share Posted August 13, 2009 I agree......definitely not a home. Get out on the highway somewhere :thumbsup: Seriously, if there are any parents reading who are having problems disciplining their children, please check this article on my site, whatevershewants. Discipline without spanking Cheers, Phil(aussiegold) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Mary Posted August 14, 2009 Share Posted August 14, 2009 thats pretty kool :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alice29 Posted January 28, 2011 Share Posted January 28, 2011 wow, this should be in the joke section! nice one mod mary! :laugh: i guess the kid really enjoyed the ride :laugh: parents should try it(just kiddin) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pjbabia Posted January 28, 2011 Share Posted January 28, 2011 wow harsh! heheh.. anyway, for that matter, i think we can discipline children by spanking but lets make it sure that we do that NOT out of anger. It could inject in the child's mind about hatred towards us and soon would not respect us when they grow up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alice29 Posted January 29, 2011 Share Posted January 29, 2011 wow harsh! heheh.. anyway, for that matter, i think we can discipline children by spanking but lets make it sure that we do that NOT out of anger. It could inject in the child's mind about hatred towards us and soon would not respect us when they grow up. i will never spank my child if i ever have one. with the right words and explanation i guess the kids will understand whats good and bad for them. give them punishment like they can't go out and play for a certain hours if they do bad things again. that way they learn the value of what they're doing to others. B) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pjbabia Posted January 29, 2011 Share Posted January 29, 2011 i will never spank my child if i ever have one. with the right words and explanation i guess the kids will understand whats good and bad for them. give them punishment like they can't go out and play for a certain hours if they do bad things again. that way they learn the value of what they're doing to others. B) sometimes, a mere explainations doesnt work. need to do some alternatives, you know what i mean.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alice29 Posted January 30, 2011 Share Posted January 30, 2011 sometimes, a mere explainations doesnt work. need to do some alternatives, you know what i mean.. okay, so you really want to hurt your child? well i won't do the same. for me it's like hurting myself. :huh: anyway that's what you believe in, so i can't do anything about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skylady Posted January 30, 2011 Share Posted January 30, 2011 That's enough members......find another Topic to post in, you've gotten off point... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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